Nohona Coaching
Below is a list of the questions I am most commonly asked. If there is anything I haven’t covered, please do get in touch.
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‘Nohona’ (Na-ho-na) is a Hawaiian word that translates into a few words in English: Life, Dwelling, Living, Way of life. But my favorite definition, and the reason I chose it for my coaching business, is “a worthwhile existence.” This can have a different meaning to everyone but the unveiling and pursuit of your ‘Nohona’ is surely something we should all be striving for.
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Think of a Transformational Coach as a person, professionally trained to promote, in others, sustainable wellness and change. Coaching explores who you really are, delving deep to understand why you behave and think the way you do. Coaching looks at what you want from life, what’s going on inside your head, and how you can start making changes that bridge the gap between your current circumstances and the life you’d like to lead.
Goal setting and seeking solutions are part of coaching, but the most powerful aspect is the understanding and exploration of yourself and your life – looking at your beliefs, fears, thoughts, assumptions, and behaviours. It can give you real awareness and clarity on negative patterns that could be standing in the way of your success.
You know that self-talk that we all do? Those voices in our head that can be anything from very supportive, to critical, to casting doubt on our abilities… well it challenges that as well!
This will give you so many profound ‘caramba’ moments – and trust me – they are mind-blowingly powerful – sometimes in a good way, sometimes in a deeply challenging way.
Transformational coaching involves deep listening, holding space for the client, observing and identifying, questioning, reflecting back, challenge and accountability. I incorporate many different approaches in my coaching style including NLP, CBT, Transactional Analysis, Behavioural Analysis, and tried and tested Transformational Coaching techniques.
It improves your self-awareness and allows you to see yourself afresh. It facilitates profound change. You have all the answers you need inside of you – coaching will help them come to the surface.
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No is the simple answer. Counseling and therapy tend to focus on the past and present and deals with some kind of problem associated with that – usually of an emotional or mental health nature. Coaching focuses on the future with the odd little jaunt into your past to gain insight where relevant.
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There are so many areas of your life that Transformational Coaching can help with. If you seek change – whatever that may be – health, fitness, lifestyle, career, relationships, confidence, self-belief, work-life balance… If you feel ‘stuck’, unsure how to move forward, or lacking in motivation or a plan – it will help massively.
Transformational coaching is the process of partnering with someone to support them through a significant change that helps them grow, develop, and ultimately “rewrite their reality.” It empowers you to completely rethink what’s possible for you and gain the confidence, self-awareness, and motivation to make it happen.
So if you know there is more to be had from life, more you can achieve, personal (or professional) goals that you are striving for, want to stop excuse-making and start action-taking, feel ‘stuck’, or simply want to feel better about yourself and your life – Transformational Coaching WILL help.
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1:1 coaching sessions last for 1 hour. I normally conduct them over Zoom so you would need to have access to a device and be somewhere quiet, comfortable and where you won’t be disturbed. I can hold sessions at a time that works for you – whether that is early mornings, evenings, or weekends.
We just talk, and I listen, reflect, question, enquire and challenge. There is always intent for the session that we set at the start depending on what you feel you need to focus on. It is so important that at the end of the session you feel it has made a difference, that you have made progress, gained more clarity and insight, and have some actions you need to take forward.
I always make notes and your Client Record will be updated with a detailed account after each session. We always establish what additional support you feel you need between sessions (phone, email, messages) and how accountable you want me to hold you for your actions!
I can also do phone sessions (although seeing you is very important as body language is such a key part of communication), walking sessions, or face-to-face sessions depending on your preference and location.
The time is yours. I hold the space for you. It is my job to manage that time and make sure we reach an outcome. So often, just having that dedicated and protected time for yourself can create massive changes and insights. Sessions feel so very personal, deep, and powerful.
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In order to answer this question, let me ask you two questions… Do you want to make a positive change to your life? Are you ready to put in the work to make that change happen?
If you answer ‘yes’ to both of those – coaching will help you.
Coaching can help you better understand your issues, and become more aware of your perceptions, beliefs, habits, attitudes, behaviors, competencies, values, and your identity. A Coach can lead you to water but can’t make you drink. A Coach can help you devise a plan, but they can’t execute the plan. A Coach can give you the tools, but won’t build the house for you. A Coach can help you recognise and understand your thoughts, actions, beliefs, and motivations, but the hard work – getting up every morning and working toward your goals every day, in both small and big ways—that’s all you.
A Coach can offer support, motivation, accountability, and inspiration but you’re the one who has to take action. A Coach can help you figure out how to win, but the actual winning is up to you.
So… Do you want to make a positive change to your life? Are you ready to put in the work to make that change happen?
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The vast majority of clients feel a huge difference just after one session. That difference might be clarity, understanding, and insight into some limiting beliefs or negative mindsets, hope that they can achieve their goal, and some achievable actions they can take forward. Just knowing they have someone by their side, to keep them accountable, and that dedicated, protected time, support, motivation, and inspiration makes a huge difference.
In terms of how long it will take, the truth is it all depends on YOU. How much you really want to make the change, how hard you are prepared to work, how committed you are, and how determined you are to combat distractions and take action. It also makes a difference how deep-seated and embedded your beliefs and behaviours are.
With concentrated effort, honesty, commitment, and my support, you will have totally transformed your beliefs, mindset, and behaviour within 3 months. 3 months is enough time to identify, challenge and change things in your life that have been holding you back and for you to see enough progress, and gain enough confidence and self-belief to KNOW that you can, and will succeed.
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If you would prefer a really intense, action-packed coaching package, then the Residential is for you. This will give you all the time, space and opportunity you need to make rapid progress towards the things that are really important to you and understand the limiting beliefs and behaviours that may be getting in the way.
It is also a fantastic opportunity to visit the incredible beauty and tranquility of Pembrokeshire to not only have those powerful few days of personal coaching, but do some walking, exploring, mindfulness and healthy eating. You will leave feeling refreshed and excited, confident about your way forward and motivated to put your solutions into action.
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The 3-month Transformational Package costs £990. This is paid in 3 monthly installments of £330. You can get a 10% discount if you pay it all upfront. The Residential costs £495.
You will not find a package out there like this that invests so much time and effort in YOU. You are already spending money on products and services that you value. It’s time to value YOU and put your needs and wishes first. I have tried to keep this as affordable as possible.
The benefits will be immediate but will continue to pay dividends to you for the rest of your life.
When you financially commit to something, you are more invested, and take it more seriously and it is more likely to keep you focused and on track when ‘old habits’ start to raise their head!
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I will refund you any monies you have paid upfront for services and sessions that have not yet happened.
I would want to do some questioning around why you felt it wasn’t working mind! It so rarely happens when someone commits, and in the few instances it has happened, the people were simply not ready to change and did not want it enough.
You have to come into this process open-minded, ready and willing to do the work, and with a desire to want to change. The coaching process will solidify these and help you go from strength to strength.
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Absolutely. We can arrange for you to have a 75 minute taster session (this includes what we would talk about at the Introductory Session) for £85. You will know after that if you wish to proceed.
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I have an Accredited Diploma in Transformational Coaching from Animas. The course is accredited by the world’s leading coaching bodies, the International Coach Federation, the European Mentoring & Coaching Council, and the Association for Coaching, and is recognised across the world for its rigour and standards.
I also undertake continued professional development, constantly striving to improve my knowledge, and techniques and keep up-to-date with the industry.
I have full Professional Indemnity Insurance.
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She's an excellent human with a wealth of knowledge.
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Honesty, integrity and a no bullsh*t approach.
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I’ve recently worked with Ruth after struggling to find the next step in my career following raising 2 children and to explore my options. Ruth was fantastic! We set objectives for what I wanted to accomplish, identified my values and tackled both domestic obstacles as well as my personal confidence returning to the workplace. I was so pleased with the structure and focus of each session. I can honestly say I’m on my way to accomplishing my goals. I highly recommend Ruth. She’s focused, reflective, practical and supportive. Thank you.
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We'd highly recommend Ruth in whatever capacity but most notably in re-establishing our daughter's confidence again.
We moved our family from England to Pembrokeshire so our kids could attend Castle School, largely based on Ruth’s “child development” role in the school. Unfortunately into their 4th year in the school, Ruth moved onto pastures new and it left a massive void in terms of personal development of the children. During this time our daughter began to suffer with fitting into her class and her confidence consequently suffered. So we immediately thought of Ruth who we contacted and she’s immediately brought our daughter back to her old self. The confidence issues have gone (or are at least under control) and our daughter has developed some super strategies for dealing with that mindset in the future. We’d highly recommend Ruth in whatever capacity but most notably in re-establishing our daughter’s confidence again. Sincere thanks, The Nand-Lal family.
Thank you Ruth.
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I achieved more in the first month with Ruth than I have for years!
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